lastchance29

Whoa... How did we come to the conclusion that Shane 77 is not reputable and also manipulative? Did I miss some previous forum drama? I only recall him posting many pictures of his surgeries and his experiences/advice. Was he working for BK all along?

I personally think it's devastating to post pictures of one's botched surgery, even with identifying features cropped. I can understand if itssumobaby doesn't want to do it. I don't even want to look in the mirror anymore or see any pictures of myself. I get panic attacks. Posting pictures of my perceived deformities caused by surgery for the public to scrutinize, laugh at, and perhaps agree with how bad it looks is far too painful. I've learned not to satisfy some people's morbid curiosity. I'm going to go on a tangent here - a "friend" of mine whom I confided in before and after my surgery seemed to be getting pleasure out of my botched results. She offered no comfort upon finding out I'm depressed over the surgery and only drilled me for the juicy details. I've had to learn the hard way to not be so open even to "friends", particularly female ones. If you are successful and attractive, the catty, cold and/or insecure ones love to see you fall.

 

SeekingBeauty,

I understand why you may be suspicious. People post false information and troll on the internet all the time. But I don't think itssumobaby is lying. I haven't met her, but I've talked to her for months on WhatsApp. She's been through a tough time coping with the surgery results and is just trying to speak out and warn others. I totally understand how she feels as I've also been stupid and greedy enough to get unnecessary plastic surgery that turned out badly.

Your post was a bit insensitive. You did in fact accuse her of lying, but at the end up the post you claim to not be doing so. All the "evidence" you dug up from her old posts doesn't support your suspicions. I don't know if you've had plastic surgery before, but having a negative result is obviously very devastating and it can take time for one to accept what has happened. For the first few months after I had my bad jaw surgery, I didn't realize how much I hated the results because I thought I was still swollen and hadn't seen my face from different angles and new photographs. It took a few months for the depression to creep in, when I began noticing all the irregularities that weren't going away, and I realized this is the face that I am going to be stuck with.

Itssumobaby, don't let SeekingBeauty bring you down. She's just a random person on the internet who is suspicious. I think your post have and will help others. I also think that some of the forumers have offered pretty good advice in this post for you. At a time like this, you should try to surround yourself with those who love and support you no matter what. Stay strong, we will get through this.