bwong

June 26, 2016

itsumobaby, I am so sorry for your bad experience and thank you for sharing your story. I hope you are better today. I want to see if you were able to successfully make them (ID) pay for what they have done? Can you give us an update on your legal pursuit? God bless you and wish you all the best.

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During the year of having done the surgery:

I was completely broken- both physically and mentally.
I had a complete meltdown in my life. I had a pretty face before the operation, but I am too greedy for something more which was completely idiotic. My whole family and my friends strongly opposed to plastic surgery and kept telling me how beautiful by just staying the way I am. I clearly remember the day when I paid the payment for my surgery in ID hospital, the woman who took the money and the receptionist ( come on, they work for ID) kept exclaiming how pretty I am and told me I really dont need a surgery, I ignored all the advices and ended up on the verge of breaking down everyday.
I broke off the engagement with my doctor fiancé, turned down a really good job opportunity and left home, alone--away from family and friends, far far away to the other side of the world because I couldnt face anyone after this failed surgery.
I avoided mirrors, pictures, any contact with people, sunlight, anything that would pressure me even more on my severe depression.
I couldnt work, sleep or think straight for the entire year, everyday is a new day to torture myself from this endless thought of blaming myself.
I cry, day and night, dreaming to go back and confront Park and Dr Lee (from Migo) who destroyed my face.

Nearly a year after the surgery 3/2013:

I finally booked my ticket to go back, to search for a solution and an answer or an apology from them.

I had seen or consulted with at least more than 10 doctors, obviously as I expected, nothing much could be done, it is so much easier to take away something from your face then putting something back into your face.

Cheeks: fat graft could be done, but we all know its a not a permanent thing, and fat injected will be dissolve in a few years max if I am lucky. I am only 24, so does that mean Ill have to keep injecting fat into my face forever? Cost? Pain? Do I have so much fat from my other parts in my body to extract?

Bone: It doesnt take a genius to know when bone is removed; it could not be repositioned into the original place, its extremely complicated to deal with this problem, not to mention my lower teeth are still numb, many doctors indicated that not much improvement from the numbing area should be expected since its 1 year post-op, a lot of them assumed its some surgical damaged cause in the tooth root when surgery not performed properly with a skilled surgeon- I just wanted to collapse outside of the hospitals/clinics every time when I heard this, does that mean I have to go through this uncomfortable feeling my whole life?
Some surgeons offered 2 options:
Option A: fat grafting
Almost surgeons opposed silicon( including myself), since it will look very unnatural and invasive prior to the trauma that I had been through, they though fat graft is the easiest and most satisfying option. However
1.) I know that fat grafting already had a fairly low survival rate around the movable area such as chin, jaw and nasal area.
2.) Fat grafting on places that have previously been operated will strongly affected on the survival rate
3.) I talked to someone who has a similar situation like me, expect her affected area is her jaw, she did fat grafting on the area where too much bone was removed and saw an improvement but the fat only remained 10% only the second month, so basically it was rather quiet pointless
4.) Fat is soft, the area that has been removed is a piece of bone, it will not be the same texture but I dont know how would it look, some pointed out it might look like a fat chin instead of a correction
So 1+2 +3 means that the fat will not last long enough for a sufficient solution, so I am back to no solution.

Option B: Fillers
Safe fillers can only last 6-9 months max, according to the amount of filling I need, firstly it would be expensive and it also dissolves quite quickly unless its a permanent filler such as artefill which has been noted as dangerous and not suitable for human faces.
So this option is ruled out as well.

A meeting with Dr Park almost 1 year after the surgery:

They sent a consultant to see me first, her name is Ena to discuss what is wrong. I successfully obtained an important piece of proof from her:
During our conversation I asked her its not Dr Park who did the operation right?
She hastily replied out of panic well but he is the one made sure everything is alright before the operation and he monitors things after the operation too
I caught this on my portable recorder. Bingo.

So Park came in after a long wait. He didnt even make to effort to be polite. He coldly asked me what the problem is again after I explained in details with Ena for 20 mins.

A.)
I didnt even have the time to explain things since he is so impatient and kept interrupting me with I dont know what you are saying every 2 seconds, which I am guessing that means I refuse to admit I did a **** job
B.)
When I indicated too much bone has been removed, oddily he replied: YOUR CHIN IS ORGINALLY THIS SMALL I didnt remove any bone! What are you talking about?!! It takes 6 years of medical knowledge to understand the mechanism so I wont bother
wtf??!! Not only he didnt do the operation, he didnt even make the effort to read my file properly before entering the room, he didnt even know Mini-V was done beside genioplasty since he was the one who suggested I have a bigger chin than I needed. He also didnt bother explaining and treated me like a retard.
Out of anger I said: do you know you did a mini- V line on me as well? No you dont! because you didnt do the operation
He panicked, startled for a few seconds and replied I have so many patients I dont know
Then kept laughing oddly and coldly in a very creepy way for the rest of the conversation, dont try to make me say things
I guess in translation that means dont try to trick me into admitting I swooped ****ty surgeon with no license for you
C.)
I then asked about the over correction of acculift ( too much fat has been sucked form my cheeks at the WRONG place) he compared 2 pictures, I pointed at my hollow cheeks and point at the before surgery picture for him to compare, he answered I dont know what happened to you , what happened to you this year? In translation: you must have been through some unknown trauma that cause your cheeks to suddenly go from full to hollow, its your problem and your fault I answered him by telling him I purposely gain 15 pounds after surgery to make up for the hollowness so I wont look so horrible by the surgical mistake. He paused, said umm then rapidly left the room suddenly without further explanations
D.) I havent even had the chance to mention about my nerve damage before he randomly left the room without a saying goodbye

The only thing I have gained by taking a plane to travel to the other side of the world to confront the man who ruined my face and my life is being treated rudely and like an idiot as expected since a lot of ex patients of ID with failed surgery DID warn me how the way he and the staffs treat patients when they come or contact them to confront them. So I recorded every single thing that he said, and I am hoping to sue him in court soon.

If anyone had the same kind of experience with ID and would like to seek for help just like me, dont hesitate to drop me a message.

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