lala98

April 7, 2019

I think they just want money

December 20, 2018

phoebebuffey said: ↑

Last night a troll created 12+ accounts and began posting and re-posting photos of me and another PF member, writing over our photos. I / my surgeries were described as "botched" / "ugly" / "pig faced" and "she looks like she has down syndrome."

Besides the obvious anger and embarrassment I felt, I was so sad too. First of all - my younger sister has down syndrome. To use her features that I love so much as an insult was heartbreaking, and just served to remind me that there are still people in this world who use "retarded" and "down syndrome" as insults.

I created my account on PF to begin my research into rhinoplasty in South Korea. Even though people said PF was going downhill as clinics hire marketers or random people to shill themselves, I found it helpful. I could see through most fake posts with a little investigation, and PF lead me to Helen (who convinced me to reach out to Namu), Kakao, and two girls who I ended up staying with in Korea. I decided to document my surgery process here because I knew a lot of people weren't comfortable posting their photos online, and I felt okay doing so. I thought writing in depth on the surgery process / aftercare / and posting regular updates of progress to show how HEALED RESULTS actually look would be helpful to people, no matter where they decided to go.

I have never tried to convince people that they *need* to consult at Namu. In fact I wrote about the cycle of popularity of clinics and said that Namu seems popular right now because they're new and a few people wrote about good experiences there. In hindsight, I should not have listed my clinic / doctors at all, because it just opens a firestorm of accusations about being fake or getting cheap surgeries in exchange for reviews. As I stated in a previous post, I did not get deep discounts. I paid a 1 million KRW deposit (~$900) + 16.5 million for my surgeries (~$14,567) + 330,000 for my lip filler (~$291). I was told by other people that I was ripped off or that I overpaid.

After spending a lot of time crying last night and trying to report all the accounts that kept popping up, I tried to pinpoint why I felt so hurt. The photos they used were directly after surgery, and my nose does look very piggy and upturned - I even wrote that in posts on here. Maybe it was the fact that they called me ugly, because I don't think that's something anyone can get "used" to hearing. But most of all I think it was just embarrassment... I was embarrassed people I know and have talked to (and yes, strangers too) would see photos with "pig nosed" and "ugly" all over them, setting me up for ridicule.

I've decided to take a break from social media altogether. PF, Kakao, even my personal Instagram/Twitter. (If you followed me on my PS Instagram, I'm sorry - I removed all followers who I didn't know.) Let this be a warning for people not to share their photos on PF. I do feel that if the admin/mod team had a better handle on the situation it wouldn't be so risky, but when all of this happened there were no admins online to help and the one mod who was online doesn't have access to this board. And, they refuse to delete my post (this post) even after I asked them to multiple times.

I know it's easy to make comments about other people's appearances, especially online. But we're all human, and I think anyone who comes to a plastic surgery board for information knows what it feels like to be insecure about something.

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Thank you for all that you've shared on here, and all the advice you've provided. It's really helping me out as I am quite clueless at the moment. I hope you can realise that whoever this person/people are, they are clearly quite jealous, they are trying to make you feel bad about something that you should feel so proud of, and happy and finally content about. Your results are amazing and I'm jealous! You were brave enough to post your pictures but that's the downfall with websites like this, it's too risky, and there's many trolls around, not only on here but on the internet overall. Okay, you obviously already know this. But what I'm trying to say is, those people don't matter and neither do those posts that they are creating, it's childish and so petty. If I was you, maybe I'd try getting into touch with this website's mods/people in charge and tell them about this situation, maybe they can help you out. If you find any of the posts, please just report and ignore... tbh I can't imagine how you feel. But it isn't real, these people don't know you in real life, they are just online trolls. F them. Stupid low lives... seriously. I hope you can feel better and cheer up! You should be so happy, you surgery was a success! Don't waste your time on these trolls! Be positive ^^ take those selfies and post them on Instagram etc.. That's really what I would do If I was in your shoes. Anyway, I hope I didn't offend you in any way and I want to thank you one more time, for all the advice. Take care

December 20, 2018

I haven't seen any bad reviews about me clinic yet. But, I've seen some positive reviews about Opera concerning facial surgeries. I'm looking to do a rhinoplasty cause my nose is huge as hell, and it's just time you know. I'm somewhat financially able to afford this! whoop. Anyway, anyone got any advice? I am a really clueless person. Please help! Idk which clinic to go for out of these two.

(((ALSO:: If anyone's planning on going to Korea in June (2019) for surgery/travel etc, hit me up! I'm going alone and searching for a person who might wanna hang out sometimes and be friends with me.)))

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December 20, 2018

Jennygirlwin19 said: ↑

Planning to go to South Korea for rhinoplasty would be great to not go through this alone

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Heyy, I'm going in June 2019!

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