locococoa Posted September 3, 2018 Posted September 3, 2018 Hi guys! I've been stalking this subject for a while and I've kinda decided that it's something that I want to pursue. for a few images. Poor quality, and ignore the home hair--my hair can actually be a lot better. It's the only thing people have complimented me on in my entire life. People usually say that I look older than my age - my dormmates actually made fun of me because I was the old-looking one and they looked like teenagers - and no one thinks as me as being a "cute type" which is kinda a let down for me. I mean, people I meet online often say I have a very cute personality--especially when I loosen up. I would love to be more youthful and approachable looking and imo, South Korean plastic surgery is amazing at this. I did look into advice for Western surgeries but usually they recommended a dozen different things, like a few expensive skin treatments, fillers, etc...just a lot of stuff that doesn't seem sustainable in the long-run, y'know? I want my face shape to be more delicate, to redistribute the fat of my face (cheeks are very flat but I still have nasolabial folds), to make my face more asymmetrical, and generally just more feminine. My forehead is actually more pronounced than the rest of my face. Someone said I should get bangs to cover it up irl, but I can't exactly do that with my fine hair. I also am kinda asymmetrical--I have an open and cross bite. I also want to have brighter eyes. Someone I knew always said I look like I'm dying most of the time. Ouch! But okay, lol. People sure can be blunt. I know I don't have to do that much, though it's something I would love to do. Would be amazing for my confidence.
melly215 Posted September 3, 2018 Posted September 3, 2018 Hey hey, you've got a really pretty set of eyes I don't think you look dying! And as far as I know people look better in real in general, so I know you are much more prettier than this! Self confident is really important girl-! But this forum is plastic surgery forum after all, so if I must advise what should be done, I would say rhinoplasty and fat grafting. I think fat grafting would be the best option for you since you wanna look younger and softer in the impression.
hhaleey Posted September 3, 2018 Posted September 3, 2018 Hi, if you want to do something permanent or semi-permanent one, you should do surgeries like facial contouring, fat grafting... I also want to make my face line smaller and sharpen so I did f/c in Korea. F/C is kinda big one so I want to do from the doctor who is specialized in. Anyway I went Cooki clinic and I really satisfied it. Old aged looking problem is the length of the face and nose usually. Also volumed face is the important thing. (I found this information a lot before I got surgery lol) If you need more information about surgeries or information, I recommend you to contact them first. There online consulting is free btw. I contact them via Whatsapp(cookieng) and I saw they have Kakao and Line account(cookieng) as well. I hope you can get enough information Have a good day!
locococoa Posted September 3, 2018 Author Posted September 3, 2018 @melly215 Ah, the unfortunate thing is that someone in real actually suggested I look far better in photos? That I looked worse in motion. To be fair most of the photos I take are far better than the ones here (some of my worst ones), was even scouted by a legit model agency (I look that different in some photos), but it basically means I can't trust positive feedback online that much. RIP. That was the only place I got it. Anyways got it. Fat grafting can work, maybe along with a v-line.@hhaleey Alright, I can try contacting the agencies! Thanks for the feedback. Also thanks for being transparent with me guys. I tried another website to ask for ways of improving myself, and they said "You're beautiful you have nothing to worry about." It's kind of dismissive, even though I'm sure they're just being nice.
Wondermuffin Posted September 3, 2018 Posted September 3, 2018 You have a very nice face and good features, if I were you, I won’t do anything. But if you really want to go ahead, I would say under eyelid fat grafting for dark circles and rhinoplasty. You don’t need the vshape surgery as your face shape is excellent.
locococoa Posted September 3, 2018 Author Posted September 3, 2018 @MissOrange And I am an average weight...149 at 5"6. Actually, my waist-hip ratio is unhealthy and it's recommended for me to lose more weight. I used to be chubby since I was a baby so I did lose 60 pounds in the past two years. I suppose I can gain weight instead even though it's going to be hard experience never being at my goal weight of 135...I wanted to see how it feels, but I guess it's no good. A few of the people I knew were saying I looked worse post weight loss and I guess that explains things. I really do look old and in a bad way. It was very hard finding out that the fat loss is also bad in those areas too...I had my suspicions, but at least now I know so I can go to the right clinic. I also avoid sunbathing like heck, and am pretty prudent with using sunscreen. I do hydrate, but I'll try harder with that.
locococoa Posted September 3, 2018 Author Posted September 3, 2018 @MissOrange Yeah, that could be an option too. How much would the fat grafts be anyway? I'd want to go to one of the best surgeons for such a thing. It's such a sensitive procedure; incorrectly done and it might look real alien. One thing is that I am not is toned soooo I'm gonna try using weights some more. I doubt it'd help my problem areas, but on the off change my marshmallow wait and arms tighten, then I honestly wouldn't mind gaining some weight from there. Thanks for the help btw.
mintsweet Posted September 4, 2018 Posted September 4, 2018 I was just reading through the forum and I came across your thread, I could not just pass by. I'm really fat, and people say I look intimidating. I was subject to bullying when I was a kid because of my fatness. I had to defend myself so I practiced how to look intimidating since then, you see I grew quite tall too...so I guess I succeeded for that purpose pretty well haha. As a grown up I hang out with mature people, so I don't get bullied anymore. But the intimidating behavior is something I engraved into myself. Something I do without consciousness as to defend? I don't know. But, even so, I do think I might as well understand how you feel... I agree with the ideas given by the girls (or boys) above. I think you will benefit from bone shaving surgery for the cheekbones and facial fat grafting. My friends did facial fat graft at Fresh Clinic couple of years ago, and they still look great. That is how I am in contact with Fresh Clinic for the body liposuction because I heard he is really well known for fat manipulation surgery. Unfortunately I don't know anyone who did bone shaving around me tho but you can get opinions from the people on this forum. But you know what we only have one face and one body, and gotta live with them for how many years we do not know yet! So I am doing research and online consultation time to time. Step by step you know?
bisousx Posted September 5, 2018 Posted September 5, 2018 I’m not sure how I ended up on this post, but you’re nuts if you want to get PS! I think you are very beautiful and don’t need PS. There are plenty of people who can benefit from it, but I don’t think you’re one of them. If you keep listening to silly little girls and their silly comments, you’ll never be happy. People will always find something to pick on, even if you “fix” one thing then they move onto the next supposed “flaw” to tear you down with. Get a new set of friends instead of girls who will poke fun at anyone’s appearance - that’s so rude and shallow. Besides, why look cutesy when you already have a gorgeous face? Whatever you do in life, you gotta own it and be proud of it. I know I’d love to have eyes and skin like yours. Looking approachable and less intimidating is in how you carry yourself and how you smile at others, not based on a full makeover. I wish you the best and hope you take it easy on yourself.
melly215 Posted September 6, 2018 Posted September 6, 2018 Look, everybody is beautiful on the planet Earth and we all know this, but, unfortunately, surprising number of people don't see the world as beautiful as you see it. This girl needs real advise and real solution to get out of her situation, not some illusive comment like "you are already beautiful". She is already suffering from what she heard from other people. If she wants to improve her looks via modern methods, its up to her choice. But you've got some points. People need to change friends around them after having plastic surgery because the already toxic girls and guys will get jealous and never admit you are prettier/handsomer. They will try to stomp your confidence down even after you look like some airbrushed model on the magazine. Try to get into a group of people who will boast you up your confidence, or else start of one plastic surgery will end up being a plastic surgery monster...
bisousx Posted September 6, 2018 Posted September 6, 2018 I’m not complimenting for the sake of complimenting. If someone could use PS, I’m all for it. I’m no stranger to plastic surgery myself. I just don’t see anything with her face that warrants a massive overhaul from current look to “cute”, and that is disturbing to me. I only see a young girl who surrounded herself with catty friends, girls who have chipped away at her self esteem and convinced her that she NEEDS to change her face in order for people to like and accept her. It’s not OK. If someone is bothered by a specific feature such as their nose, go for it. But for someone who is already pretty who wants to do some major changes to her face to achieve an unrealistic aesthetic, this is the type of person who may not be happy post surgery.. because you may find that your look can’t be improved, only that you look different.
melly215 Posted September 6, 2018 Posted September 6, 2018 If you are no stranger to plastic surgery as I am, as we all are lurking and communicating in this forum, then you know how many girls/guys had situation like the thread starter here and began their PS journey, AND you know PS does help overcoming the situation (being more confident, etc.). Its a bitter fact, and that is why so many people choose to do plastic surgery. For you, you may not see whats the problem, but people gave out their opinions because they see the problems she pointed out, and to tell her what should be good for her.
gats Posted September 6, 2018 Posted September 6, 2018 I actually recognize this member from her previous post under a different name here: # If you read through enough of her replies, you can see she has a distorted view of herself and there's a very strong need for validation from these "friends" of hers who seem to like to destroy her already low confidence. I would not recommend anyone here feed into this by telling her she needs to have surgeries as there's deeper mental health issues going on here that surgery cannot fix.
bisousx Posted September 6, 2018 Posted September 6, 2018 Thanks for the link. Looks like there was 10+ pages of self-encouraged discussion already and open invitations to speculate. In my experience, the patients who actually needed "help" walked away feeling happier - most importantly, they moved on to live their lives and stop obsessing over their looks. The patients who did not need much tweaking to begin with were the nightmare clients who could never be satisfied. They blamed and harassed their doctors for not giving them the perfect face because.. like you said.. there's mental issues that surgery does not fix.
itmeowshere Posted September 6, 2018 Posted September 6, 2018 You’re eyes are and upper area of the face are very attractive and shouldn’t be touched. I’d say one thing that could make you look more “cute” would be some alterations to your jawline to be a little bit more defined. It’s not bad or anything just a little rounded and larger than the top part of your face. Here’s a pic I made in InstaBeauty which you can download and try for yourself. I don’t think you need surgery but if you really know if it will really help your confidence this is what I suggest!
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