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  1. Is your issue mainly sagging skin or is it the overall shape of the face after V line? If it is saggy skin but the shape is what you desired then yes facelift should help. However, if your issue is like mine where bones were overcut I think our only hope are implants. I don't have saggy skin but feel like I lost the structure of my face. I don't think I needed the surgery or should have gone to a different one. I miss my old face but I can't turn back time. Honesy, I'm tired of feeling this way that sometimes I am suicidal. How are you coping?
     
  2. Zygoma reduction is overhyped. Jaw reduction can go very wrong very easily at the hands of the wrong doctor. If you want it done I suggest you go for the exact same doctor that performed the surgery on happy Youtubers or patients. But I suggest you ask for a conservative approach and a doctor who follows the hippocratic oath very strictly. These doctors will say no to requests that theh think are unnecessary or harmful for you as they don't want to cause harm.
     
  3. A lot of lawyers work on a no win no fee basis because medical negligence is hard to prove. Having severe damage to appearance, function and health can give you a stronger case, however. Since you now developed symptoms you didn't have and surgeons confirmed you have been botched is a start. You need to speak to a lawyer who has experience in medical negligence and travel law to assess your case. Usually it settles before it gets to courr but if it does and you win the lawyer takes their fees off the compensation and some of the fees paid by the opposing party. Loads of law firms in the US are experienced in medical negligence a abroad. I'm speaking with Slater and Gordon for mine but need to see a surgeon firsy before I call them back.
     
  4. If your results are simply unsatisfactory but not botched I guess you should still see it as a blessing. It is far better to look almost the same after surgery or look minimally different in a good way than ending up looking vastly different cause you got botched or surgeon did something too extreme.

    Minimal changes only means the surgeon was careful and conservative in their approach which would always give the most natural results and very low chances of complications. Often when a surgeon goes too far is when you get problems.
     
  5. No it means conditional fee agreement. Most medical negligence lawyers can take a no win no fee agreement and file a claim. If no agreement is reached you can take the offender to court. Although, most claims settle before going to court.
     
  6. What's mind boogling is why do people still go to this doctor who has a habit of doing what he wants during surgery and running off with it. He seems to enjoy this sick habit of his and find pleasure in ruining women's lives. At the same time why does he still have his license? If I were you I'll file a claim on CFA and share your story on as much forum as possible to warn others so he can't ruin people's faces.
     
  7. I am thinking of getting my chin possibly pushed back to how it was and possibly a jaw implant across the entire jaw and chin if it could somehow return my face structure to how it was. But I do not know how I will end up looking and how the thickness of the implants will affect the contours of my jaw and chin. Facial implants tend to add projection as they need to latch on and get screwed onto the actual bone. But another issue is I don't want the implant to be the same shape as my current jaw and chin as then it will only give a bigger version of my face now that I do not like. I really do not know how it will all work out if I get implants and I have only seen posts from 2 girls here who had their jaws reconstructed but they never logged back in to the forum to give updates. The surgeon may also have to resuspend my mentalis muscle to release my lip from being rolled in. This puts me at risk for chin and lip ptosis and possible infection from the implant. Yes my incisions are inside my mouth and another operation again will likely put my oral tissues in such a trauma that I could end up with issues with internal tissue scarring. If my implant does get infected and anti-biotics fail to help, they will need to go in again and remove it. The thing is if you detach the tissues more than twice no one knows how it will affect function, movement and sensation. I may not be able to eat or talk normally if that happens. I can't get my incisions looked at as we're on lockdown. If I ever do decide to have a reconstruction it will need go be in a year or so to let my nerves and muscle heal. I'm really afraid to have surgery again since my last. I had other plastic surgeries before but I had them done locally by top surgeons and all went well except this recent one which was supposed to be my last. I just didn't make it by trusting the wrong surgeon. What I really want to get across to women considering bone work is not do it unless you have functional jaw issues or your jaws are excessive large even for a man. If you're insecure about your chin then maybe try fillers first and if still unhappy maybe implant and as a last resort genioplasty. But please go to the best and ask for a CONSERVATIVE approach. What I've learned from this is that a surgeon that produces consistently good, natural and realistic looking results are better as they do not push boundaries that could lead to complications. These surgeons will say no if your expectations are unrealistic and are aware that too much change is very harmful. I'd expected to look like a better version of myself and heck I would even be happier if I look the same. I wish someone could put a sticky post on this forum warning girls of the dangers of jaw, chin and cheek reduction. I do not know any of you but I certainly would not wish what happened to me on others. Please love yourself and your small imperfections. We are our worse critic and we need to learn to love ourselves. I am now merely a shadow of my former self which I lost in one night a few hours into surgery.
     
  8. Yes I am in distressed and haven't been able to sleep or eat properly. I look in the mirror everywaking day and search the net for solutions to my problem but all I see on realself regarding hemosiderin staining are cases where there seems to be no clear cure or treatment for it. Plastic surgeons suggest laser but it is a case of trial and error. I may be stained for life. Add to that the lip and smile, and bump issues as mentioned. I had hope that the aesthetic side may be better but as the swelling all came down, it revealed that it is not so great. My face is shorter when I face before was a rounded oblong shape. My chin had a slightly flatter tip which I simply wanted to be more rounded a bit not cut to the smallest shape which puts the balance off for the jaw as it narrows it too much. As a result it made my jaw pointing like a V and my chin like a round ball on the middle with a curve to the sides where it meets the jaw. A bit like an inverted omega. It does not suit my face as I have high cheekbones and thinner face which was balanced out by my oblong face before.

    My incision on my right jaw/cheek also remains to be halfway open somewhat. If I move my cheek, it gapes open ever so slightly but not enough to show wound or bones. I have no idea if that's how it is supposed to be but I never saw any sutures on the actual incisions. Thankfully it didn't get infected. My left incision has closed with the tissues sticking to each other as if glued. I'm also still numb and have no idea if I will regain any feelings as I woke up from surgery with zero pain which I thought was weird. I felt and was described as beautiful before by people close to me and strangers. I simply wanted a slight enhancement but now what I got is a less than perfect functioning lip, scars, unknown bump and a face shape that doesn't complement my other facial structures. I have been registered to my local mental healthcare provider for anxiety as I often wake up at night with my angina and flashbacks of the surgery. I feel trapped and ruined and miss my former self where I could put on makeup and my favourite outfit and feel really good. I often than not feel that only death would release me from my pain yet I still somehow do want to keep living. My younger sis cries with me everyday and reassures me that everything will be fine and that she wants us to grow old together. She begs me not to take my own life.
     
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