frnd Posted March 12, 2020 Share Posted March 12, 2020 Are they against it or are they supportive? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jooliagoolia Posted March 12, 2020 Share Posted March 12, 2020 They have no idea. I know my family is super against any kind of elective surgeries. I have had a breast lift and implant, TT, and a BBL. I dress like a college student most of the time (hoodie and sweatpants) and I have been wearing push-up padded bras my whole life, no one in my family even noticed (I even got 595cc implants). Got my eyebrows micro-bladed and, holy hell, the **** I had to listen to from my mother, not ever telling her judgmental ass about any of my procedures. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dutchbirblady Posted March 14, 2020 Share Posted March 14, 2020 My family doesn't really care what I do. They say it's my body so my choice, but that also means I do have to pay for everything myself (which makes sense imo). As long as I'm not putting my life on the line with doing very dangerous surgeries, they won't really mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
areti77 Posted March 14, 2020 Share Posted March 14, 2020 What exactly do you and your family consider as “very dangerous surgeries”. I think that for a young and healthy person the dangerousness of most cosmetic surgeries is pretty much the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weiner Posted March 16, 2020 Share Posted March 16, 2020 I had to convince my parents for nose job that I got recently. Since I already had quite bad results from des and also had to revise it and my eyes still look quite asymmetrical, my parents were kind of against, especially my mom. Hopefully I could change her mind and she actually was the one who came to support me. At first, she was kind of skeptical about the decision I made but after meeting my surgeon she finally agreed and moreover, she liked him so much that already allowed me to revise my eye with him too! And btw, I’m also considering a two-jaw because of my under bite, already said it to my mom and looks like she doesn’t mind. Fyi, both doctors were from regen ps. My nose job surgeon was dr.Lee and for two-jaw I got a consultation with dr.Oh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vee_wudlyktoplay Posted March 16, 2020 Share Posted March 16, 2020 I worked hard and saved my own money for my surgery so my mom wasn’t against it. She’s supportive about everything I do, specially if it’s something that makes me happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tvxqgirl Posted March 18, 2020 Share Posted March 18, 2020 They think its unnecessary pain and money but they're also not going to ostracise me for doing it. It would be nice to have their support instead of their judgement, but I've accepted their reaction. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missnomer Posted March 19, 2020 Share Posted March 19, 2020 My mother isn't necessarily pro-plastic surgery or anti-plastic surgery. She respects my decisions and she does compliment me when I altered my look with clothes, makeup, procedures, etc. if it looks good, so... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krod2017 Posted March 19, 2020 Share Posted March 19, 2020 My parents were pissed. Still not happy about it because I had to correct the botched work I had done after going to tlps . Which cost me thousands.. I understand now why they felt concerned . I was too young and not sure what I was getting myself into. I wish my parents would have been a little more involved with my research in the beginning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silverneedle Posted March 19, 2020 Share Posted March 19, 2020 they have no idea that I have done PS. I told my mom that I used thread lifting to make my double eyelid more defined. my dad didn't even notice any difference lol. my parents would be upset if they knew the truth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frnd Posted March 19, 2020 Author Share Posted March 19, 2020 My family thinks I am vain and greedy for wanting plastic surgery. I want to improve myself but I feel like I’m being selfish at the same time. Looks aren’t everything. I wonder why I can’t just accept myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gherkin23 Posted March 26, 2020 Share Posted March 26, 2020 My parents told me if I wanted to do it its fine, but I could tell they sort of didn't want me to do it, but I did it anyway and when they saw my nose they were happy with it lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kellymelly Posted April 1, 2020 Share Posted April 1, 2020 I didn't tell my parents, as they though that if you go for plastic surgery, the difference it going to be too big and it will look unnatural. After I had my nose surgery, and after the swelling came down, my mom was quite surprised with how natural it looks. I told her that I want to have a DEF procedure also, and she agreed to come with me to Korea hahah I already made an appointment with Seoul Queen for July, but because of this corona situation T.T I don't know if I can go or not... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yunggrandpa Posted April 2, 2020 Share Posted April 2, 2020 My parents could care less, like they're happy if I'm happy and it's not like I did something extreme that I'm not recognizable anymore or something like that. My parents have always been extremely strict, but I'm happy that they are open minded when it comes to these things. My nose bothered me severely for most of my life and it was such a pretty outcome afterwards, they were so happy for me! My siblings are just as happy for me. They're so pleased, they joke about getting it done themselves That being that, even if nobody approved, I was so unhappy with myself back then that I know I would have ended up sneaking around and doing it behind their backs anyways. I always dreamed of a time where I wouldn't have to feel like how I did in those days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachaelrosen Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 My mom hates it lol Which is flattering. She thinks I'm pretty and don't need it. But she also trusts me to make decisions with my own money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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